4 Ways to Make Your Words Matter More

Your words count. They have the power to change opinions, change you, and even change the world. They can build up and encourage, or tear down and fester. Author Zig Ziglar once said, “There is power in words. What you say is what you get.”

So let's heed the advice of this anonymous quote: "Savor your words before you spit them." When we understand that our words have power and matter, we make the most of them. Here are 4 ways you can add more meaning to your words.

1. Be humble.

Humility brings patience with your words. When you are humble, you often tend to speak less and speak more gently. For example, being humble in an argument means not getting angry, speaking louder, or talking more because you disagree with someone. Instead, use fewer words and try to understand the other person's side. If you consistently think about others more than yourself when you're talking, people will notice that you care - so when you speak, your words will carry more weight.

2. Knowing how to listen.

Good communication depends entirely on how well you listen. Unfortunately, many of us talk instead of listen—especially when we disagree with someone. When I'm wrong, my natural tendency is to talk more. We try to win or assert ourselves in a conversation. But it only makes the problem bigger. The more we talk, the less our words count. But if you listen carefully, your words will mean more.

3. Spend time.

Many find that their words don't matter to others because they don't put in the time it takes to build a relationship. No matter how busy you are, don't see encounters with others as a distraction. See them as opportunities to network. See the value inherent in every person and every conversation. Your words become more important when you give others your time and attention. When you value other people, they are more likely to value your words.

4. Please God.

Our words should be aligned with God's Word. Our words should please Him. And if they please God, they will please others as well. So we always have to ask ourselves questions – am I speaking the truth? Am I speaking with love? Am I speaking to build? Am I speaking in the best interests of the other person?

Whose words were most important to you and what impact did that person have on your life? Share a comment below.

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